Apart from the fact that this plays like an episode of “What Not To Do in Dating” Theater, I can’t fathom what other evidence you need to feel confident in asking her out. Messenger pigeons carrying a note saying “Ask me out again”? If you wonder about this kind of dating etiquette, this is exactly what we cover in my 8-week Passion Course – understanding how to be a great first date, always get a second date, date multiple people, deal with sex and intimacy, understand the opposite sex, etc.A candygram from a dancing bear, who then takes off her head to reveal your date? If she likes you, the ONLY way you can mess things up is by hemming and hawing for a week. If she likes you, she’ll be thrilled that you called. Click here to learn more: When I was in my 20s in the pre-online dating and text days, I’d stress about whether to call a chick after a first date.
I’m teasing because it’s a sweet and innocent question – and because there’s only so many ways to say “yes” in a blog post. Some guys have concluded that the next-day follow up is a failed strategy. If she doesn’t like you, she’ll be annoyed that you called. Oh, and by the way, do yourself a favor and make a move on her on your next date. Now that I know more, and despite the fact that hiding behind a computer or cell phone makes potential rejection easier to swallow, I still always ask a woman out for a second date at the end of the first, if I’m interested.
And for any guy reading this who also wonders the same thing as Michael, here’s a rule you can take to the bank: If she had a great time with you on Friday night, you CANNOT go wrong by calling her on Saturday afternoon to ask her out again. Either way, her decision was made on Friday night, not when you made the phone call. Otherwise, I fear I’m going to get another email in eight weeks wondering if she’s “receptive to affection”… A woman will let you know with her body language, if she’s genuinely interested in going out again, or if she’s just being nice.
On my way back past this guy, he was still staring.
It was strange, but I thought it was probably all in my head.
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