It deserves no more than a 'thank you' if accepted.” “You don't really know if the lady is having a bad day and just wants to be alone, or is having a great day and is hunting. Plus, a guy steps into unknown territory, while the bartender has already been talking to this person.” “I feel like having the right mindset going in is key.
That person you're going to approach is just another human.
Brownie Points: Cook some brownies and let your spouse know he/she earned some brownie points for something they did. Then write down your phone number and have the bartender give it to your hubby.
You could even take it one step further on the flirtatious scale and have your note be something romantic they did for you. – Leave old fashioned notes all over the house: in the shower, medicine cabinet, by the coffee pot, pillow or car. – Give him a really passionate kiss before he leaves for work so I’m all he’s thinking about until he gets home! – Tell him you miss him and what you’re going to do to him when he gets home. Or say “look what’s waiting for you when you get home! So I’m constantly telling him how sexy, good looking or hot I think he is. ALL of these ideas are SOOOOOO amazing and I am excited to be able to share them with you.
(Nothing dangerous or over the top) I’ll just slide my hand along his leg or tap his shoulder and wink.