Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.When they tell you that they don’t want these things they are lying! Early 40’s with small children – although these women are closer to your age (not really) they are at a completely different stage.
All that said, I do think there is a side of a man who dating a much younger women that at some point thinks to himself, “What the hell am I doing? Does he need me—a 50 year old woman to tell him I approve? If both of you are having fun, I think there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are doing. ” In my opinion, deep down, he knows, but I’ll say it anyway.
” Case in point—I received this message from a reader: Now, why would this guy reach out and ask about the downside if he is saying “We both enjoy the relationship? If no one is getting hurt and if there are no false expectations on either part, then I think it’s great. The downside is, these kinds of relationships have a shelf life.
When i was recently separated, I was sitting around one night and I got a call from a friend of mine, asking me to meet her, her husband and “some of his work buddies” at a local bar. I walked out the door in a pair of jeans that I probably couldn’t get one leg into today, and a sleeveless top that showed off my slim (at the time) arms.
My kids were on vacation with my ex, so I had no child care issues. When I walked into the bar, my friend came rushing over to me.
He was browsing the Valentine’s Day rack of black, lacy thongs, teddies and garters.