Hi This is Len from the usa I married a girl from china a year ago she is the best thing that has happened in my life As for the family and the controling part thats up to you if you let it happen dont blame anyone but yourself always make things clear what you want and what you dont If you cant agree then dont get married I just sat and watched an American TV program dealing with "buy one partner or spouse by mail order." It was American companies that cooperated with similar marriage agencies in Russia.
The consequences in his article are true in some aspects, so it is a good reference for international marriage.
Bearing in mind China has a culture that spans and Chinese people are exceptionally different in thought and action compared to westerners, this subject warrants some attention.
Dating or marrying a chinese woman
The importance of family, honor, and hard work are reflected in all aspects of life, including romantic relationships and dating.
As a first generation Chinese American, I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area, a major hub for multitudes of Asians and Asian Americans.
Most countries in the world have been exposed a great deal to what could be called 'western culture', or even now, what might be called 'world culture'.
This, however, is still not the case where China is concerned.
The Parental Influence Like many Chinese parents, mine only expected the best – the best grades, the best schools, the best jobs, and the best husband who shared those same qualities.