When you spend too much money on a gift after just a month of dating, it can look desperate.
Whether it's a birthday, holiday or just because, finding something that says you care without saying you're obsessed can be difficult.
You are always in two minds what to do and what not to.
You want to look both interesting and interested but definitely not needy.
Maybe you've had a conversation about a particular classic movie or book, or she's mentioned a favorite spa that she frequents.