Most vertically-endowed women don’t care how tall you are. Let her know who you are, and she may fall for you. Do: hold my hand, tell me I look hot, put your arm around me. Not everyone was 5’10” in the eighth grade, you know. In all likelihood, I won’t end up marrying a midget, but, for the most part, height is no big deal when you’re doing the horizontal mambo. And If You’re Worried About What Other People Think …
We can look Chad Ochocinco in the eye, but we’re like every other woman on the inside, so treat us accordingly. In terms of anatomy, the parts generally work themselves out. When other guys see a guy with a woman who’s taller than he is, they assume one of two things: A) He has a lot of money, or B) He’s really good in bed.
Dating advice for tall women
Recently, a colleague of mine, a successful psychologist in her mid-30s, confided in me about an ongoing problem she faces in her dating life: She feels that she’s simply too tall for most men, standing at almost six feet.
The issue she struggles with is the same issue many other tall women deal with as they look for a good romantic partner.
When we talk about tall women, there’s what many people think of as ‘sexy-tall,’ the range of height where women are, say, 5’8” or 5’9”.
These women have the best of all possible worlds: They’re tall to the point that it’s easier to stay thin or carry weight well, but not so tall that they face the stigma of men not wanting want to date a tall woman.
We love our height, but we may be ambivalent about it, too.