So, to keep that rush alive people tend to push the boundaries of when to talk to or text their other girl.
Over time the odds go up that you’re going to get caught! Deviating From The Norm “Women are intuitive, and we know when something is ‘off’ the moment the situation changes,” Jasmine Diaz, a celebrity matchmaker and dating expert, says.
Men and women who cheat are so desperate to get laid that they offer up personal information at some point during the affair.
This personal info is a trail right back to your #1 girl.” So, if you’re thinking about dating multiple women when you’re already in a committed relationship, we’re here to say: don’t do it. The same goes with cheating, according to Severson.
Even if you're looking to keep it casual, "then by all means, also try out the variety and the spice of life." Steinberg does not suggest sleeping with more than one man at once because of added drama and STDs, but she advises all of her clients to go out on dates with multiple people—until they find someone that becomes particularly sparkly and special to them.