Ever been at a party or a function where someone is talking to you, but at the same time scanning the room looking for someone else to talk to? I can also date multiple people and still make the right choice. Dating multiple people has significantly disabled bachelors and bachelorettes from focusing on the people sitting right in front of them.Studies show that too many options actually make it harder to choose.If there are, we'll make the subsequent call to see what promotions will be applied if the customer makes a purchase.
I firmly believe that the vast majority of those who write to me in the Telegraph aren’t really looking for advice.
Composing the letter will probably have been the most helpful part and they will have decided on a course of action long before I respond with a lovingly composed epistle.
At a minimum, it is a waste of your time, as more likely than not, non-exclusive relationships peter out. It is rude and disrespectful to be subject to such behavior. Dating someone while they’re dating other people is the same thing.
At worst, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak, getting attached to a person who refuses to focus on you. While he’s out with you having coffee, his mind could be on the dinner he had with her last night. I know many people think, It’s okay if he’s dating others besides me.
The same is true of the tearful huddle in the wine bar.